Kindness is said to be an act that is an integral part of being a human, but some people view this act of generosity as having hidden motives. Evaluating such hidden motives in concern shown by others stems from deep-rooted psychological distress and trauma. There have also been studies that show higher the childhood maltreatment, the higher the perceived threat and distrust(Hepp et al.,2021). Although kindness is frequently thought of as a natural remedy, it enters many people's minds more quickly than they can comprehend. Warmth arouses feelings they are unable to control, such as vulnerability, remorse, desire, and inadequacy. Rather than softening, they withdraw or reframe the connection in an effort to achieve internal balance. The response is the same regardless of the particular pattern, as their system perceives the link as dangerous. When we offer something kind and direct, the reaction can be hostility, defensiveness, withdrawal, or even…